So today, I lost my virginity. It was amazing; everything I thought it would be and more.

But a few hours later, I got my period. Usually on my period, I have very mild or no cramps. However, now I am having very uncomfortable cramps. It isn't anything horrible, but definately irregular.

My question is, is this normal? Does is have anything to do with my having had sex? How can I help ease these cramps?

If it makes any difference at all, we DID use a condom, and it did NOT break… I don't know if that matters…
Doesn't sound like anything wrong. Your body is probably just reacting to the trauma down there. Muscles were stretched - now they contract. (Think about it)

Good job using protection also - And yes that does matter. If you hadn't - the feeling could mean something else.
first of all wrong catergory kiddo

and no you don't usually get cramps from bad sex

ok im 14 and i really need and want a job, and the only place thats close enough and that i want to work at is target, and i was thinking i could clean the dressing rooms and stock shelfs, but they say you have to be at least 16, (and not to sound self absorbed) but i have the maturity level of a 16 year old, can someone please help me, i really need a job before the holidays <3
There are loads of potential problems for youngsters in work, many of them legislative, parents have to be careful about that. There is loads of guidance from the website in the box below on this topic, they also have guidance for all people who are hunting for work, or who have to change careers.
Dude, if they say the age is 16, it's 16. Most states put many restrictions on 14 year olds working, and businesses don't want the hassle.

okay so im in 8th grade and im thinking of signing up for a magnet program for high school and i dont know which so what kind of jobs could i get in the futuure with these feilds:

Global Technologies

International Baccalaureate

Advanced Engineering Applications

Engineering,Science and Technology

Criminal Justice,Finace and Law

Medical Careers

Medical Arts
8th grade, wow! Good for you to be proactive.

Your list is pretty open; it includes technology, finance, law and medicine. You can probably find a job in any of those fields. The big question is what should you do?

To decide what you should do, the first step would be deciding what you like to do. What do you enjoy studying? Don't pick a career just because you think you can get a job in it. You'll spend a LOT of time in your career, so you should enjoy what you're doing?

Once you decide what you want to do, find out what the requirements are for that career and tailor your education towards it.

Good luck with your career. I have a feeling you'll be very good at whatever you decide to do.
looking for a job is hard, especially if it's months since you last did it! I was jobless during the last couple of weeks, but I discovered the website in the box below which is really helpful in lots of ways. By taking their advice, in a month or so I soon got myself a job.

There are plenty of charities out there to feed the homeless, the children, and the elderly, but no one wants to feed the trolls. How can I start a program to fill this great need?
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Do not worry, the government will take care of trolls.

What do you think Ben Bernanke does all the time? He uses helicopters to throw money to them trolls.
If you are in the United States, research "501c". Go to the IRS and your state tax boards websites. These will get you started

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I just peed a little.

Well,I'm 14 years old and I want to:

Get a job
Get my OWN apartment

Basically getting my works permit (I need it or I'll have to be 16 to work)
Also get emancipated (to get the apartment)

I'm asking for at least $10 dollars and hour for 7 hours.
That way it's $2100 monthly.

Since I don't know real life money I'm taking a guess at it

around $1500 rent.
Around $150 groceries
Laundry $20? (wild guess)
Electricity $120
Cable/Phone/Internet $150
All equals to $1940

The rest would be for maybe an extra bill that I probably missed.
If not then I'd get myself something nice.

What jobs can get me 2,000 monthly?

I was thinking like a job at the mall.I wouldn't mind working at Hot Topic,or at the movies.
Anything really!

For all you wandering
I do my school work online,so I have time for a job
I'm NOT abandoning my family,ha.

So,if you know any jobs,please tell me!

Actually I'm not thinking of starting 'till I'm 15 (early Jan)
You are expecting to pay $1500 for rent? Where the heck do you live … New York City? You are planning $150 a month for groceries … are you anorexic??? It's one thing to have goals set but what's missing for you is term "realistic" goals. I have 30 years of work experience and I don't make (nor take home) $2K a month. Have you considered that taxes will be taken from your income? $10 an hour will not yield what you're seeking based on 7 hours of work. Are you taking any math courses??? There are alot of restrictions for minors (until legal age) in terms of what hours and duties a "child" can perform. It is important that you are aware of them as you begin a job search. With that said, I don't want to be totally negative about your situation and objectives but simply the way you are thinking. You can start up your own business which would give you 100% of your income after taxes and expenses are paid (often with tax deductions) and you don't have to be a certain age. There will be legal restrictions such as the types of products or services you can market like you cannot sell alcohol, tobacco or firearms. You should look into starting up a business of your own using your time and talents. Do you know that free time you have now? Use it wisely. Check out the library for books like "Fast Cash for Kids" by Bonnie & Noel Drew and also the book "The Richest Kids in America" by Mark Vincent Hansen. There are young adults making some suprising incomes in their own businesses but don't rely on a traditional job to pay you the kind of money you're seeking because at your age, it's going to be a disappointment. Steer away from anything that sounds too good to be true. Review your goals and your expense theories and always seek to live within your means. Consider two jobs, consider a roommate, consider dropping the cell phone plan, consider your own business, consider ways to make money instead of ways to spend it.
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Well the issue in finding a job worth $2,000 monthly will be very rare because most people who finished college with degrees would get that amount. Also you might not start off as $10/ hr at first you will probably end up with a lower price. The fact of the matter is they might start you with lower pay and work your way up to the $10/ hr. In a way working in a mall at your age will be considered as great experience for the future to know what you're getting into. But to have a job like that will make it very difficult to live your own life. Since you would not be able to pay all of your expenses and needs. I suggest if you find a job save a bit of your earning so that in the neat future you would be able to pay for your own expenses for a year or two till you'de have a better salary. There are several place you can try to find a job. You can apply at Best Buy, Walmart, Game Stop, Hot Topic, and the list can go on and on about department stores . Hope it helps ^_^
At the mall $2000 is hard to get monthly.I worked at foot locker starting at $6.50 then $7 then i quit. Maybe 1200-1500 depends where you live and work.I work at walmart im 17 i make $9.23 Im stocker at night from 10pm-6am 40hrs a week 320 or more a week with taxes and all.I have a ged and diploma but only job I found other jobs require me to be 18 or older.Also where do you live that its 1500 a month I live in arizona I pay $340 for rent 1rm apt 650sf ft with free cable,water and internet,cell bill $53,electric $50-70,laundry detergent and all about $40-60,stove gas and heater gas 20-30, i spend like $600-750 just for my house food and all

Any type of advice is gladly appreciated. It would be a self business. I manage everything. Every little thing including accounting bookeeping and the service itself advertising all me.
Managing your own business where you do everything is a real juggling act. Don't forget to keep your sales strong. Sometimes business owners are good at what they do but not good as salesmen. On the flip side, don't sell more than you can deliver as that is not good for the business either.

If you are not good at an aspect of the business it is good to hire professionals who can help you. Accounting comes to mind but keep a very close eye on accounting. I had a friend who helped manage a pest control business and the accountant ripped them off and did not pay bills she was supposed to and send in tax statements. It was a mess when they took it back from her so beware.

I am in the process of learning Quickbooks which is an accounting program for small business owners. If you can learn this it will help you watch the money flow.

Another thing I tell people in general is to prepare your taxes manually at least once. Read all the fine print on what is tax deductible. People presume they can deduct a lot of stuff but there are rules about everything. People presume they can deduct all their medical expenses but they only become deductible after you have spent a certain amount (over 4% of your gross income).

Good service is your best advertising–get referrals.
The best advice I can give is this. Don't micromanage every aspect of your business. Hire a bookeeper and CPA and other proffesionals to help you. The more time you spend handling the details of the business the less time you have to provide the service and bring in new business. Your plan is a recipe for burnout.
The best advice I can give you is don't be afraid to spend money. I went 3 years doing everything myself for my website and business, I started paying people to do my website work and things I wasn't the best at. That gave me more time to actually figure out more ways to make money.

Also make sure your name for the business makes sense, don't have a stupid name.

Track all your cost and time, make sure you understand what something is truly costing you
http://www.allbusiness.com/business-planning-structures/starting-a-business/3470974-1.html
http://www.sba.gov/smallbusinessplanner/index.html
I suggest you contact the SBA they have many booklets and personally also you en quire from them
they will be glad to help you

They said they need it for the INS I need to apply for a new one can I still get paid next friday if I don't have it by then?
You will get paid until they tell you can't work.
When you go to SSA, they will give you documentation, so the sooner you go the better.
You can't apply for a new social security number if you previously had one. You will have to ask your local social security office to find out what your original number is.

Ask your parents for your social security number. They had to use it every year to claim you as a dependent on your taxes.
You really need to talk to your hr dept or manager about this one.

what are the ups and downs of using a Realtor. Do I need to have my banks OK before I even start looking?
First of all see how much is your budget. Then what is the type of house you are looking for. After that then decide whether you can afford the deposit of 5%. That's for a new house. If it's an existing house, the realtor may charge you and the existing houseowner 5-10% commission.
After that for both new and existing house, you can apply for your loan.

I was with Rogers about 2 years ago, cancelled both the phones I had with them.. Have not received a bill, phone call, or anything from Rogers since than. Two days ago got a collections notice saying I owe $1,995.75 for unpaid charges plus $800 cancellation to cancel both those phones. This is ridiculous I stopped using the phones and they're charging me? Is there any law or anything I can put against them because they say I have to pay the balance in full now.

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well see I cancelled the phones, at least thats what they told me over the phone when i argued with them last year or whenever. so i thought ok good. we never moved so the address was the same, name was the same nothing changed. just out of the blue got a collections notice about unpaid bills for a phone i have not used and am being charged for. with rogers now if im late 2 days on a bill i get a phone call.. did not receive one phone call, one bill, no nothing from rogers, phethetic
Were you still under contract when you canceled? You can't just stop using a cell phone service in the middle of a contract…
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Debt collection in Canada is governed by the provinces and territories..

Send them a letter via Certified Mail Return Receipt (do not use regular mail) stating:

I am requesting written validation of this alleged debt, including a fully itemized bill showing how the amount of $1,995.75 was calculated.
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What did your contract say? Did it include cancellation fees? How did you terminate service? If you just called and cancelled, did you get anything in writing confirming that termination? And if you had been receiving monthly bills before, did they just stop coming?

I suggest you contact the cell phone company and try to negotiate some kind of settlement. Almost $2K is a pretty hefty charge for cancelled phones. You need to ask for a detailed statement of those charges. Get it in writing so you have a paper trail.

If this is a third party collection agency trying to collect, definitely send a certified, return receipt letter requesting validation of the debt to include copies of contracts or other documentation proving the debt is yours. Request a detailed statement of all charges and explanation of any interest or late fee charges.

For some reason, old phone bills tend to end up in the hands of zombie collectors. I suspect that phone companies don't credit off charges and eventually those accounts get sold off. They may not have any documentation to justify those charges.

I applied for a staff attorney assistant position with my state's supreme court. It did not mention any specific educational background, but should it be expected that applicants have a law degree or some sort of legal background, such as a paralegal education?
Yes, paralegal certificate would help or some other experience working in a lower court
If you have a degree - or any extra qualification - then you'll already be in advace of of the crowd when it comes to hunting for jobs. My pal has a degree and he wasn't sure what direction to go with it, but he uncovered some excellent instruction on the site in the resource box below which guided him to decide that he wanted to be a lab assistant. There is plenty of help on the site regarding extra jobs.